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HYLAND to talk to people. How he explained the benefits--as uncovering the un- conscious of the person--I think that is very nice, but that feeling of loving contact, the understanding contact, with another significant human being is most important. Do you think empathy trumps uncovering, revealing the unconcious? Yes. One of Freud's attitudes about sex was important, and that was, "let's talk about it." Making heterosexuality the central model of good health was Freud's mistake; I think love--for whatever gender-- is what makes for a good life, no matter what the pants you're wearing. I've been married twice, first for forty years, then got divorced, marrying a lady with whom I live now. You either strike it right or you don't, it's a crap shoot. I know that I was very lucky. I am now being helped by the people who take care of me; they are loving people. I collaborated with John Fiscalini on a book, a collection of papers, including an introductory paper by me, a sort of summary of my thought. Every year or so I get a check from Columbia University Press for $38.00 or so. What other messages would you give to young doctors? Vote Democrat. What are your recommenda- tions for choosing a psychiatrist? You start to talk to someone, and if it feels right, chances are it's right. Talk to my wife, she's still in practice. Invest wisely. So as to lessen the drama of stress in your life? It's important to have a certain degree of financial stability to have a sense of well-being. What about the influence of the built world on the psyche? It plays a role. When I sit in a room as beautiful as this one, I feel at ease. If you want a plug for interior design. Whose bust is that over there? And I have a statue just like this one.